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How to Have BDSM Sex That's Safe and Consensual

on Sunday, 13 May 2018. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Life Hacker

Here are some important consent ground rules to follow:

Your partner must clearly affirm their desire to engage in sexual activities with you. In other words, a lack of a “no” is not a “yes.”

Your partner must consent to every single activity that you engaged in together. Saying “yes” to having intercourse doesn’t imply that someone is also saying “yes” to being slapped in the face.

I like using the term “enthusiastic consent,” which means that not only is your partner willing to engage in these activities with you, but they’re also excited about it.

Your partner consents willingly, without pressure or coercion.

Consent can be revoked at any time.

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