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Stop the Arrests in New York City

March 10, 2009 - The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (
NCSF) is a proud member of the Stop the Arrests Coalition. Spokesperson Susan Wright has participated in organizing meetings and spoke out at the Sheridan Square Rally on February 21st, 2009, against the false arrests of gay men and professional Dominatrices for prostitution.

There is good news from a meeting on March 6th with Police Commissioner Ray Kelly pledging to curb the
stings against gay men (see articles below). NCSF is continuing to press for a cessation of arrests of professional Dominatrices, and has written to Commissioner Kelly to ask for a meeting about the NYPD's change in policy after 14 years of legal operation, which has resulted in a number of arrests of Dominatrices and owners of BDSM houses since Fall 2007.

NCSF opposes the prosecution of pro-dominants under prostitution laws. Consenting adults engaging in safe, sane, consensual SM, fetishes, and cross-dressing services do not pose legitimate health or safety issues for local communities. What these adults agree to do in private is no one else's business.

Members of the Stop the Arrests Coalition include: Queer Justice League, Gay and Lesbian Anti-Violence
Project, Sex Workers Outreach Project, Urban Justice League's Sex Worker Project, and FIERCE New York.


KELLY CURBS 'GAY' STINGS

by Larry Celona
New York Post
March 9, 2009

Following accusations that vice cops were making dubious arrests of gay men
at pornography shops, the NYPD has decided that similar investigations will now have to be approved by the department's higher-ups, sources told The Post.

Police Commissioner Ray Kelly called the head of the department's Organized
Crime Control Bureau, which oversees the vice squad, and others to Police Headquarters after protests outside Mayor Bloomberg's home over the arrests.

Protesters said undercover vice-squad cops were flirting with customers in
Manhattan shops and offering to have sex for money - which the activists said amounted to entrapment.

The department had said it was not targeting gay men but was rather
conducting a nuisance-abatement operation in response to neighbor complaints.

As a result of the talks, it was decided that all such operations would have
to be cleared by OCCB head Chief Anthony Izzo, the sources said.

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Manhattan DA Pledges to Investigate Gay Men's Prostitution Arrests

by Duncan Osborne
Gay City News
March 8, 2009

Activists who met with Robert Morgenthau report that the district attorney said he would investigate the
2008 prostitution arrests of at least 30 gay and bisexual men in at least six Manhattan porn shops, and may dismiss the cases against five of the men who are contesting the charges.

"The first thing Morgenthau said was, 'We are going to investigate all these cases,'" said Joey Nelson,
coordinator for the Queer Justice League and a member of the Coalition to Stop the Arrests. "That was the first thing out of his mouth."

The March 6 meeting lasted roughly an hour, and included coalition members, elected officials or their
representatives, community groups, and Leroy Frazer, the executive assistant district attorney for governmental affairs and community relations.

"They were going to go back and start looking at all the individual cases," said Robert Pinter, also a
coalition member and one of the men who was arrested last year. "They really seemed genuinely concerned that something wrong was happening here."

The arrests, which were later cited in lawsuits seeking to close the shops brought by the city against
five of the six businesses, are widely seen as false arrests in the gay community.

"They weren't trying to cover things up or hide," Pinter said. "Morgenthau himself brought up that he
has prosecuted police over 300 times in his career."

Morgenthau's office could quickly dismiss the charges against the five men who pleaded not guilty, but
Pinter and Nelson said no promises were made.

"He said that those would be easier to act on, but there was no promise of automatic dismissal," Nelson
said. "He said they would investigate those cases and that those would be the first that they would investigate."

Morgenthau's office may already be doing that. At court dates, the district attorney's office has

repeatedly adjourned the cases saying they are not ready, leading defense attorneys to speculate that the prosecution is letting the time limit it has to bring the cases to trial run out so the cases will
have to be dismissed.

Activists asked that Morgenthau reopen the other cases in which some of the men are known to have
pleaded guilty to disorderly conduct and received minor sentences. Those dispositions should be vacated, the charges dismissed, and the cases sealed, activists said.

Morgenthau cannot do that on his own, though he might not oppose such motions. Those men convicted would
have to ask that their pleas be vacated.

"Those cases would have to be brought forward by the individuals," Nelson said. "At this point, we

should be doing an all-points bulletin that people who have been arrested should be contacting the district attorney's office to ask if their cases can be vacated."

The meeting was convened by State Senator Thomas K. Duane who, activists said, was an effective
advocate.

"I thought Tom Duane was very, very strong in putting out the lay of the land," Nelson said. "He called
it homophobic... He said it was a set-up."

Duane, who is openly gay, represents Chelsea where some of the arrests happened. State Assemblywoman
Deborah Glick, an out lesbian who represents the West Village, was also praised by activists.

"[Duane] was really forceful and Deborah Glick chimed in a really forceful way," Pinter said. "They were
just very outspoken."

Other attendees included Assemblyman Dick Gottfried, who represents Chelsea, Brendan Fay, a coalition
member, and staff from the New York City Gay and Lesbian Anti-Violence Project (AVP).

Activists had a February 11 meeting, organized by City Council Speaker Christine Quinn, an out lesbian
who represents Chelsea, with senior police officials who said they had paused in their efforts.

"The message, at least in the DA's office, was heard really loud and clear," Pinter said.


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Action Alert
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

SHERIDAN SQUARE RALLY
Christopher St & 7th Ave

SATURDAY February 21, 2009
4-5PM

IN SUPPORT OF THOSE FALSELY ARRESTED FOR PROSTITUTION

This is a big protest and rally at Sheridan Square this Saturday. Susan Wright, Spokesperson for
NCSF, will be speaking out at the rally against the arrests of professional Dominatrices for prostitution. In order to help raise awareness of the arrests of pro-Dommes, NCSF has joined the Stop the Arrests coalition along with the Anti-Violence Project and Queer Justice League.

Please come even if you don't want to participate in the protest. It helps to draw a crowd to show this is an issue that's important to people.video links:

http://vimeo.com/3218164
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JitBi2Q1-g

NY TIMES coverage:

Among Gay Men, Arrests Spark Concern About Being Singled Out
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/15/nyregion/15arrests.html?_r=1&ref=nyregion

THIS POLICE MISCONDUCT MUST END NOW!

Anti-Violence Project
Queer Justice League
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

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You do not have to be afraid of people who engage in SM. SM players are doctors, lawyers, teachers, construction workers, fire fighters, secretaries and everything else you can imagine.

 

In her 1983 book Erotic Power, sociologist Gini Scott examined the dynamics of the heterosexual SM subculture.

She stated: "Unlike the psychiatrists and psychologists who deal primarily with psychologically troubled individuals who are also interested in D&S [Dominance and Submission], I did not find them to be psychologically troubled or socially inept; rather, a spirit of good humor and fun prevailed, and the participants appeared to be mostly attractive, quite ordinary-looking people who had ordinary relationships outside the D&S scene... A vast variety of people with a diverse range of erotic interests participate in sadomasochiSM. Their backgrounds, activities and attitudes are quite unlike the social stereotype that depicts sadomasochiSM as a form of violence, mischief, or mayhem perpetrated by the psychologically unstable who seek to hurt others or to be hurt themselves... At the core of the community are mostly sensible, rational respectable, otherwise quite ordinary people. Thus, quite unlike its public image, the community is a warm, close and supportive one."

Gini Scott (1983). Erotic Power, Citadel Press: pg. x.

Published in What is SM

SM is a sexual orientation or behavior among two or more adult partners. The behavior may include, but is not limited to, the use of physical and/or psychological stimulation to produce sexual arousal and satisfaction. Usually one partner will take an active role (top or dominant) and the other will take a passive role (bottom or submissive). SM practitioners can be heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, transgendered or intersex individuals.

 
SM is not easily defined; the range of behaviors are quite broad and most participants do not enjoy all of the activities or roles. The problems with the definition are discussed at length in an article by Weinberg, Williams and Moser. They found five features present in most SM interactions they studied:
  • Dominance and submission - the appearance of rule and obedience of one partner over the other
  • Consensuality - a voluntary agreement to enter into SM "play" (interaction) and to honor certain "limits" (ground rules of how involved and in which direction the play can proceed);
  • Sexual content - the presumption that the activities have a sexual or erotic meaning;
  • Mutual definition - the assumption of a shared understanding by the participants that their activities are SM or a similar concept;
  • Role playing - the participants assume roles either for the interaction or for the relationship that they recognize are not reality.
 Weinberg, M.S., Williams, C.J., & Moser, C.A. (1984). "The social constituents of sadomasochism." Social Problems, 31, pg. 379-389.
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