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NCSF Newsletter: 1st Quarter 2011

NCSF Newsletter: 1st Quarter 2011

In this issue


  • Letter from the Chair
  • Boston Annual Meeting
  • Interview with a Coalition Partner
  • DSM Revision Project a Success
  • Why support the NCSF?


From the Chair
By: Leigha Fleming
NCSF Board Chair

Hello to all of you and an especially warm greeting to all of our supporting and coalition partners. 2010 has been an exciting year for NCSF. We had some major successes with the DSM revision and the progress of our Consent Counts project. We're excited about the completion of website overhaul which seems like it has been years in the making. We hired Devious Designs in the fall of 2010 to take over the website overhaul and we fully expect them to deliver on their promised completion date of mid-February. Externally, like many non-profit organizations, our funding which is solely reliant on donations, has dropped off some due to the economic recession. We're extremely proud that we remain debt-free and we are operating in the black.

Our annual meeting for 2011 is scheduled for the last weekend in March (26 & 27) in Boston, MA. If you are an active coalition partner representative and need assistance in attending the meeting, please email. We have limited assistance to help facilitate your attendance so that you can attend this important meeting. We will have four board seats open for election for 2 year terms along with four seats that will be filled as appointments for 1 year terms by the new board. All nominations must be received no later than February 25th. Nominations should be made via email to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . If you're interested in serving on the board, please contact a board member and we'll be happy to discuss it with you. We are a working board and serving on the board requires a commitment of time and energy. However, there is a great reward in engaging in the important work NCSF does.

We will be conducting training for our Educational Outreach Program(EOP) presenters in conjunction with our annual meeting. We have new workshops that we've put together in the last year and we are excited to be able to coordinate training for our EOP presenters this year. Our EOP presenters are committed to delivering NCSF's message and have special expertise in addition to training that makes them especially well suited for doing this important volunteer work. NCSF gave over 45 educational presentations around the country with the 10 presenters currently qualified to work in the program. If your organization or group is interested in seeing a list of our program offerings or having NCSF come out to present for your group, please email This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

NCSF's work is more than just providing immediate assistance when an organization, individual or business has trouble because of its BDSM, swing, or poly interests and activities. Our overall strategy is shaped by the belief that true social change comes in helping shape the tone and tenor of the conversation around personal privacy and consensual adult sexual expression. Our efforts in our media outreach program along with our educational outreach program offerings are key in helping change and set the tone of that conversation. I'm often reminded that social change is more than often not achieved by an insistent, persistent, consistent drive for change rather than radical revolution.

As the only organization dedicated the BDSM, swing, and poly communities, now entering its second decade of active work, we continue to meet the challenges of the 21st century full steam ahead, with our heads high and activism energy shining brightly. Thank you for being a part of this work.

Happy New Year!

Leigha Fleming
Board Chair


Annual Meeting of the CP Reps
Boston this March!

By: Opn Heartd
CP Rep Mob New England & The New England Leather Alliance

Hi, fellow CP reps!

I've been NELA ( and Mob's (www.mobnewengland.or) CP rep for several years now, working with these groups to spread the word about NCSF's media updates, incident response program, and special projects like Consent Counts and the Kink-Aware Professionals list.  I've attended the annual meetings, networking and brainstorming with other CP reps and the NCSF board and staff members.  We've read minutes (hot!), we have had break-out sessions, we've voted!  I come away from these weekend-long meetings re-energized and inspired by my fellow activists who work so hard to defend the rights of kinky, swing, and poly consenting adults.

  • Coalition Partner representatives will be meeting on March 25th - 27th, 2011 a river view away from Boston to discuss how NCSF has progressed so far and to plan for NCSF's next year. 
  • We've secured a great meeting space just a couple blocks from a terrific hotel offering us an excellent group rate, surrounded by restaurants, and just steps from the nation's oldest and fourth largest transit system, the T ( ) so that Boston sightseeing will be just a ten-minute ride away.  (The hotel is even a super-easy T ride from the airport, too!)
  • Local groups are already fundraising to help cover the expense of meals served throughout the meeting weekend, to help make the trip affordable for meeting attendees. 
  • A Friday night group meal and presentation, open to meeting attendees and the local community, are in the works.
  • Selected members of the local community will be invited to attend the meeting in hopes of encouraging continued NCSF support and fanning the fires under folks who have been curious but not quite sure how they can best help NCSF yet.
  • A local party host is holding a private play party that Saturday night and CP reps are invited!
  • Once the weekend-long meeting is wrapped up, we are planning another opportunity for the local community to join in on the NCSF fun on Sunday afternoon with another presentation.


The board is still continuing to work on programming and will post an official schedule and travel details once everything is set, but on behalf of Boston and all of New England's NCSF supporters and cheerleaders, I hope to see a TON of you out here in March.

While I'm waiting for the NCSF Annual Meeting to happen already (!), I am keeping busy spreading the good NCSF word.  Since returning from the Seattle CP rep Annual Meeting in March of this year all fired up, I've tabled for NCSF and organized / co-organized some really fun NCSF fundraisers.  I remember when fundraising felt overwhelming and impossible to me when I first became a CP rep, but I'm in the groove now and am proud of how I've been able to offer generous people a bit of awesome fun in return:


  • Mob Speed Mingling and Play Party in April:  Party attendees spent the first chunk of the party getting to know each other rapid-fire style; imagine musical chairs combined with kinky photos!
  • Feet First NCSF Fundraiser in July:  Service providers from various groups donated their time to tickle toes, black boots, and massage feet while attendees of the Fetish Fair Fleamarket donated cash to NCSF.
  • Mob Zipper Night in July:  With donated clothespins and twine, attendees did arts and crafts to create clothespin zippers which we used on each other at the play party afterward.
  • Mob First Aid Class / CPR Certification and MEDIC! Play Party in October:  A kink-friendly EMT certified attendees at this two-day training and we all dressed up in medical costumes for the Saturday night play party.
  • Princess Kali ( Flogging Workshop and Flog-Oh!-Matic Mob Play Party this month:  After Princess Kali ran this hands-on workshop, we all were eager to try out our new skills on each other at the play party -- after thorough negotiations, of course!

Last night, working with Princess Kali and Miss Savannah Sly (who both donated their time and filming equipment and expertise on behalf of Kink Academy) and NCSF's own wonderful Vivienne, I helped organize a filming of a very fun and campy  NCSF infomercial with local volunteer actors.  I won't give anything away before it all gets edited and is ready to be shared WITH THE WORLD, but there was spandex, a snowman wrapped in a baby blanket, and a lot of laughing involved.

This coming May, I am co-producing a brand-new queer-focused kink conference -- Queer PlayCon (, an educational and social weekend for queers and their allies, 21+.  We are planning two mini NCSF fundraisers at Queer PlayCon and all profits after our expenses and presenter fees will be going to NCSF.

A lot of my play-focused fundraising events have been held in private venues because Boston (all of Massachusetts, really) does not have a public dungeon space.  Something like percussion play between consenting adults is not legal here.  Queer PlayCon will be held in a Hartford, Connecticut playspace where consenting adults can indeed legally spank, cane, and flog each other.  Boston would love to have a legal play space, too, which is one reason I believe in supporting NCSF's good work, creating a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expressions.

I hope I get to see a lot of my fellow CP reps for a fun and interesting hop from Freedom Trail to Sexual Freedom in Boston in March 2011!



CP Rep for Mob New England and the New England Leather Alliance

Interview with a CP
Adventures in Sexuality (AIS)
By: Julian Wolf

Barak and Sheba are the founders and owners of Adventures in Sexuality (AIS). When asked about their role in AIS, the first thing they wrote was, "While we founded it, hold the paper on the LLC, and continue to guide and organize AIS - we don't really think of AIS as our 'property.'  It really belongs to the Central Ohio community and the members." We asked them a handful of other questions, which they were gracious enough to share the answers with us.

What type of relationship does Adventures in Sexuality have with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom?

"Adventures In Sexuality (AIS) is a Coalition Partner of the NCSF.   We have been involved since Sheba went to a Media Relations class at a major DC event 3-4 years ago.  Currently, AIS has a good and open relationship with the NCSF, including personal contact via phone, e-mail and mutual support at events and beyond."

What type of a presence does  NCSF have at your large events?

AIS has requested an NCSF presence at the events, including Winter Wickedness and COPE, since Jan 09.   The NCSF has regularly attended with staff members, literature, and a table in the vending area.  Also, they have provided some keynote remarks and been open and available to the Event Participants.

How has NCSF supported AIS events? 

"Aside from being a legal resource, the NCSF began advising AIS 4 years ago.  We initially contacted Susan to review and brief us on our website.  She was very quick to get back with us, and pointed out some legal pitfalls immediately.   Furthermore, she indicated some legal aspects to consider when we run events, meetings, and the like.   We have since adopted  many of those suggestions, and integrated the processes she shared to decrease our liability.

At AIS Events, the NCSF has sent representatives have staffed a resource and informational booth.  At Winter Wickedness 2009, the NCSF stepped directly into the fray.  We were under a significant multi-directional assault by the radical right.  The NCSF advised us , assisted by launching a National Ad Campaign, and handled the media."

How did you decide on "Adventures in Sexuality" as the name of your organization?  

We wanted a name for the organization that encompassed everything we had enjoyed within our creative sexual experiences.  We weren't "Leather" per se, and we weren't just kinky.  Our history included spiritual, energetic, sexual and ecstatic practices.  As we brainstormed about it, we discovered that our paradigm was one of an ongoing journey - hence - our "Adventures In Sexuality."   

What are the goals of AIS? 

"Originally, it was just to have fun.  It has evolved significantly over the past 5-6 years.  One of our shorter term goals is to assist in building a kink community that is "on par" with the larger cities, New York, DC, San Francisco, etc...  Although our organizational goals  (and our personal resolve) were re-forged with the WW09 conflict with the radical right.  Our ongoing goals - are contained in the Mission Statement:  

AIS in an ever growing and evolving Web and Real Time group dedicated to the goal of assuring a healthy and accepting space for sexual freedom.

AIS is committed to providing a space for fun, unity, awareness and social interaction between all individuals involved in open relationships & BDSM alternative lifestyles.

AIS works toward creating a more unified Ohio kink community by opening communication with Ohio Leather Groups, assisting with joint events, and promoting cross group attendance and fellowship among groups.

AIS stands by the precepts of SSC (safe, sane and consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) practices of fetish and alternative forms of sexual expression.

Furthermore, AIS aims to promote a safe environment for members and non-members to gather and interact in a relaxed setting. We intend to promote honesty, openness, happiness, goodwill, friendship and acceptance within Ohio, and Nationally; with a focus on persons involved in Leather, Fetish, BDSM or Sexual Alternative Lifestyle regardless of race, religion, gender, or sexual preference."

How has founding and owning AIS affected your lives?  

"It has really been a fascinating journey for both of us.  We started AIS because we felt there was so much more to discover and we wanted to bring it here.   In our time organizing AIS, we have really come to a new depth of communication.  It has become an ongoing process of  clarifying many of our needs, wants and desires.  We have discovered and tested our boundaries, and learned more about using our voices.  We have opened up a new facet of our sexual and energetic selves and continue to grow as a couple.

While it is a bit of work, AIS allows us to work together to co-create events, parties, meetings, and import fantastic experiences for ourselves, our friends, and for the Central Ohio community.   Being part of a family, a community, here in Columbus has reinforced our desire to give back, and help protect what we all are building."

You can find out more about AIS at Barak and Sheba are on Fetlife (as Barak, brat_sheba and BarakNSheba) and have their own website at "We are just very excited that the community continues to support, encourage and share this journey with us. We are really looking forward to seeing what comes next!"

NCSF's DSM Revision Project is Successful in 2010
By: Susan Wright


NCSF Media Relations
One of the ways we can see the positive affect of NCSF's DSM Revision Project is in the outcome of child custody cases. NCSF's Incident Response program helps almost  500 people a year: 132 people asked for help with child custody/divorce cases in 2009, while 154 people asked for help with the same in 2008. NCSF provides expert referrals, educates lawyers and social service professionals, and supplies the research and information that can convince family court judges to allow kinky parents to keep custody of their kids.

Five years ago, NCSF's success rate was approximately 20% when it came to refuting the false contention that a parent is unfit because they're involved in BDSM, swinging or polyamory. Today, that success rate has risen to 50%.

A large part of this success is due to NCSF's efforts to change the tone of the conversation in media and politics. In 2010, NCSF staff were successful in persuading the American Psychiatric Association to depathologize Sexual Sadism, Sexual Masochism, Fetishism and cross-dressing. Since then, family court judges have cited the proposed revisions for the DSM-V (that have not even been published yet) as the reason for dismissing challenges to child custody due to a parent's alternative sexuality.

In the years ahead, with your support, NCSF will continue to make strides to achieve equality for all consenting adults no matter who they love or how they have sex.

Why should you support the NCSF?
By: Julian Wolf

Wordsmith, Educator, Performer

For years the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom has had my support. I heard about the Coalition years ago at an event where Glenda Rider was selling the first run of clear bumper stickers- and I've been hooked ever sense. There are many reasons that I support  the NCSF with my time and money. Our goals are similar. Which goals? Well, Let's go right to the mission statement.

"The NCSF is committed to creating a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expressions."

Politically- I am ready to see some changes. While it is a lot easier to come out of whatever closet you'd like to come out of these days than say, two or three decades go, there are still some laws out there that make having a good time between consenting adults illegal in some areas. Sometimes those laws aren't enforced, but sometimes they are. The first step to changing these laws is to have advocacy. We need people- and specifically people in politics and the lawmakers themselves- to be aware of  the fact that there are people out there who care-very deeply- about the fact that there are laws in place that could/are affecting what we do in our private time that should not.

Legally- I am one of the people that has been discriminated against due to being out as kinky and poly. I feel that having an organization that will fight for us when we are those unfortunate times is vital. Many individuals, events, families and organizations have been helped by the Coalition, and I for one want them there to help again in the future.

Social Environments- Many of us dream of a world where discrimination against different love styles and adults consensually interacting with other adults is a thing of the past. I know I am not the only one. I for one am sick and tired of having to give a BDSM and Polyamory introductory course to every medical practitioner that I ever visit. While I love teaching those classes, during an appointment while we should be focusing on my health isn't the most opportune time. I didn't stay with my last therapist because after a year, they were so fascinated with the intricate details of my lifestyle that we rarely focused on the reasons that I was actually going to therapy. Changing our social environment to a more aware and hopefully more accepting will make everything from those professional appointments to dates where there is more than two people at the table easier on staff and us.

"The NCSF aims to advance the rights of, and advocate for consenting adults in the BDSM-Leather-Fetish, Swing, and Polyamory Communities."

As someone who is deeply involved in the sex-positive community, knowing that there is someone out there working to advocate for me and my family of choice makes it easier for me to have fun. Having the card outlining how to handle the situation if a law officer shows up at the door next to my door- particularly at play parties has been a comfort not only in my private life but at the parties and events that I've organized over the years.

"We pursue our vision through direct services, education, advocacy, and outreach, in conjunction with our partners, to directly benefit these communities."

I've been able to participate in trainings, workshops and several vital conversations at events across the country. In addition to those in person encounters, there is a wealth of information on the NCSF website, available to everyone who's curious. I've sent individuals and group leaders to the site as a reference on multiple occasions. The Kink Aware Professional Program is a valuable resource for people who are looking to support those professionals that support us. I've referred several professionals to that resource, and numerous people seeking those services. Additionally, they now offer guidance on how to chose practitioners, as well as "What Psychology Professionals Should Know About Polyamory", an essay that you can actually give to psychology professionals so you don't have to take time from your session to explain the basics. Invaluable.

How do I support the NCSF? I've been a member for some time, and I encourage the groups that I participate in to do the same. Coalition Partnership is an excellent option for organizations. I've run the fundraisers for the New Mexico Leather League and Rio Grande Leather and participated in a plethora of others. Stepping up to help with fundraisers is great way to support the cause as well as an opportunity for a lot of fun. We have had everything from raffles to top/bottom auctions to Mad Scrambles to raise money for NCSF- and it is been fun doing it. I have recruited several new people to join the cause due to these fundraisers!

Supporting the NCSF with my time is also something that I feel is important. They keep a list of volunteer opportunities available on their website, and I'd like to encourage you to check it out and see how you can help. Please  always leave a financial contribution when you can, but also remember how valuable just a few minutes of your time can be to an organization.

Why do I support NCSF? In addition to supporting their mission statement wholeheartedly, I am also excited by projects such as "Consent Counts" and the DSM-V Revision Project.  I strongly feel that supporting your local community is vital and it is something that I encourage everyone to do. I also know, from experience, that having support from a national source makes a very positive difference. The NCSF supports the events, organizations and personal connections that I participate in, and they have the professional expertise to do so very well. I support the NCSF because I feel that they support me and my families of choice. As a kinky, polyamorous, sadomasochist who chooses not to live life behind closed doors, I feel it is only right to help in the fight to protect those who are out, and those who chose to stay in.

Why should you support the NCSF?


Julian Wolf


Coalition Partners as of December 2010


Adventures in Sexuality (Columbus, OH) ? Arizona Power Exchange (Phoenix, AZ) ?Albany Power Exchange (APEX) (Albany, NY) ? Barone Photo Art (Perkasie, NY) ? Boise BDSM Society (Boise, Idaho)? Black BEAT Inc. (Baltimore, Maryland) ? Black Rose (Washington, DC) ? Brandon Longwood - (Maryland) ? Center for Sex Positive Culture (Seattle WA) ? Club X (San Diego, CA) ? SINZ Social Networking ? DFW PowerExchange (Dallas, TX) ? DLH Productions - (El Sobrante, California) ?Evergreen Leather Events (Kenmore, WA) ? Females Investigating Sexual Terrain (FIST) (Baltimore, MD)  ? FetLife ? Fox Valley Coalition (Neenah, WI)  ? Folsom Street East ?  House of Decorum  (Greenville, SC) ?Institue for Personal Growth (New Jersery) ? International Ms. Leather (IMsL) ? Knights of Leather (Minneapolis, MN)  ? LA Noble (New Orleans, LA) ?  Leather Scouts, (Albuquerque, NM) ? Leather SINS (Chicago, IL) ? Leigha Fleming (Denver, CO) ? Lesbian Sex Mafia (New York, NY) ? Lifestyle Alternatives Centre (Lake Worth, FL) ? The Mark by CPI : Tennessee ? Midwest Alternatives, (Lincoln, NE) ?Midwest Fantsay Adventures (Chicago, IL) ? Milwaukee Eastside Munch Group - Milwaukee, WI ? Minnesota Kinky Youth (St. Paul, MN) ? MN Rope - (Minneapolis, MN) ? Minnesota Stocks, Debentures, and Bonds (MSDB)  (Minneapolis, MN) ?MOB New England ? New England Dungeon Society (New England) ? New England Leather Alliance (Boston, MA) ? New Mexico Leather League (Albuquerque, NM) ? OhioSMART (Cleveland, Ohio) ? Riverbound (Iowa/Illinois) ? Satyricon (Wisconsin) ? The Siege (Tennessee) ? smOdyssey, Inc. (San Jose, CA) ? Society of Janus (San Francisco, CA) ? South Florida Munch Group (Margate, FL) ? Southern Cross Munch Group ? Swingers Date Club (North Carolina)? TABU Social Club (Baltimore, MD) ?  The Group in Fresno ?  Threshold (Los Angles, CA) ? Touch of Leather  (Lampasas, TX) ?  Tulsa Dungeon Society (Tulsa, OK) ? The Eulenspiegel Society (New York, NY) ?  Windy City Boys Troop (Chicago, IL)


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Resources for Media

Resources for Media

Includes vital statistics on alternative sexual expression, interview contact list, and a selection of articles from national publications.

Community Resources

Community Resources

Includes tips on how to speak to the media, sound-bites on alternative sexual expression, and a primer on how to write a letter to the editor.

"NCSF" in the News

"NCSF" in the News

CDA Media Reports

CDA Media Reports

Media reports covering the Communications Decency Act lawsuit launched by co-plaintiffs NCSF and Barbara Nitke.

  • NEWSBYTES - December 19, 2001

    Net Obscenity Provisions Revocation Sought NEWSBYTES By David McGuire December 19, 2001, Washington, DC -- A small civil liberties group has asked a federal judge in New York to revoke what remains of an Internet pornography law that was gutted by the U.S. Supreme Court in 1997. In a complaint filed in a New York City Federal Court [ ] last week, the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom […

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  • San Francisco Bay Guardian - January 14, 2002

    Techsploitation By Annalee Newitz San Francisco Bay Guardian, January 14, 2002   HERE'S YET ANOTHER wacky fact you probably didn't know about the Communications Decency Act ole Bill Clinton signed into law way back in 1996: the good citizens of some small town in Arizona or southern California might have the power to send you to jail if they think the contents of your Web site are "obscene." The CDA…

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  • San Francisco Frontiers - January 23, 2002

    Communications Decency Act A Lingering Coup de Grace? By Tim Kingston   January 23, 2002   You may dimly recall the Communications Decency Act of 1996, which unsuccessfully attempted to define and proscribe "indecency" on the Internet. That law's legal core--its indecency provision--was immediately challenged and rapidly struck down as unconstitutional by free- and electronic-speech advocates. But, what many may not know is that another portion of the law, prohibiting…

    Tags: Media CDA
  • Ynot News - January 2, 2002

    Can David Beat Goliath in the Battle of Obscenity? Part 2   By Judd Handler   Ynot News, January 2, 2002   Last week's editorial featured an interview with John Wirenius, lead counsel for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Barbara Nitke, an adult content photographer. Wirenius, on behalf of the NCSF and Nitke, filed a lawsuit on December 11 against Attorney General John Ashcroft seeking to overturn Internet…

    Tags: Media CDA
  • Ynot News - December 20, 2001

    Can David Beat Goliath in the Battle of Obscenity? By Judd Handler   Ynot News, December 20, 2001   One would think it would take the giants of the industry to force the government to rethink existing, not-applicable-to-the-Internet obscenity laws. On the contrary, the little players may be the ones who are successful in getting the federal government and the Supreme Court to throw out irrelevant local community standards when…

    Tags: Media CDA
  • Wired - December 12, 2001

    New Suit Targets Obscenity Law By Julia Scheeres Wired, December 12, 2001    A national organization that promotes sexual tolerance and an artist who photographs pictures of couples engaged in sadomasochism filed a lawsuit Tuesday seeking to overturn Internet obscenity laws. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and photographer Barbara Nitke argue that the obscenity provision of the Communications Decency Act (CDA) is so broad that it violates free speech.…

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  • Spectator Magazine - January 11, 2002

    STANDING UP TO BE COUNTED: BARBARA NITKE CHALLENGES JOHN ASHCROFT ON S/M AND INTERNET OBSCENITY By David Steinberg Spectator Magazine, January 11, 2002 "No matter how we're wired to express love, freedom is having the courage to be who we are." - Photographer/plaintiff Barbara Nitke On December 11, Barbara Nitke and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom brought suit in New York City's Federal District Court, seeking to have the…

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  • New York Press - August 28, 2002

    What's Obscene in Podunk By John Strausbaugh New York Press, August 28, 2002   Barbara Nitke is a well-known and much-seen photographer in her field. She's president of the New York Camera Club and teaches a course in darkroom technique at SVA. A nice, neat, sweet individual, she's the very very last person in New York City you'd suspect of being a pornographer. Which she's not, not exactly. She's more…

    Tags: Media CDA
  • New York Newsday - July 25 2005

    New York judges refuse to say Internet obscenity law is unconstitutional By LARRY NEUMEISTER Associated Press Writer, July 25, 2005, 7:58 PM EDT  NEW YORK -- A special three-judge federal panel on Monday refused to find unconstitutional a law making it a crime to send obscenity over the Internet to children. The Communications Decency Act of 1996 had been challenged by Barbara Nitke, a photographer who specializes in pictures of…

    Tags: Media CDA
  • New York Daily News - July 15, 2002

    Fotog vs. Feds in Obscenity Law: Files suit to keep photos on Web by Veronica Vera New York Daily News, July 15, 2002 Photographer Barbara Nitke is used to being behind the lens, but if legal matters heat up, she may soon find the government focusing on her. Nitke is ready to step into the foreground as the chief plantiff in Barbara Nitke and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom…

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  • Nerve - December 11, 2001

    Nerve December 11, 2001 Photographer Barbara Nitke and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) filed a lawsuit today, claiming the Internet censorship provision of the Communications Decency Act (CDA) violates the First Amendment right to free speech. The provision stipulates that "local community standards" will judge whether or not something is indecent. Yet attorney John Wirenius argues that "By allowing the most restrictive jurisdiction to define what speech can…

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  • CNN - December 20, 2001

    Lawsuit targets last scraps of Net-obscenity law By Sam Costello (IDG News) CNN, December 20, 2001 The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and artist Barbara Nitke have filed a lawsuit challenging the remaining provisions of the Communications Decency Act, much of which was struck down by the U.S. Supreme Court in 1997. The act, or CDA, was passed in 1996 and was the first U.S. law designed to allow…

    Tags: CDA Media
  • Adult Video News - February, 2002

    NCSF Tackles "Community Standards" For The Web By Mark Kernes Adult Video News, February Issue Washington, DC The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom may not be a household name, even in the adult entertainment industry, but if their recently-filed lawsuit succeeds, they may go down in history as the first group to secure Americans' core constitutional speech rights.  NCSF is based in the nation's capital [~] in fact, only a…

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  • ABC News - July 29, 2002

    Love or Obscenity? S/M Photographer Challenges Internet Decency Standards By Dean Schabner, July 29, 2002 When Barbara Nitke wanted to put her photographs of loving couples on the Internet, she thought she should check into the laws first. That's because Nitke's recent photographs have been focused on how some couples express their love through sado-masochism. What Nitke found after reading up on Internet law and talking to lawyers was…

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A quarterly newsletter produced by the NCSF staff to inform our communities about the important work our coalition is doing.

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    Written on Monday, 05 January 2015 14:08
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 3rd Quarter 2014

    NCSF Newsletter 3rd Quarter, 2014 In this issue NCSF Mental Heath Survey Incident Reporting & Response NCSF Thanks! Merchant Services Question A Touch of Humor Media Updates Representing on FetLife NCSF Mental Health Survey Please take the NCSF Mental Health Survey! We would like to know more about your BDSM practices, mental health and relational violence experiences:    NCSF is working with researchers at Sam Houston University's Department of Psychology and Philosophy who will compare our responses to…

    Written on Friday, 19 December 2014 16:32
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 2nd Quarter 2014

    NCSF Newsletter 2nd Quarter, 2014 In this issue Go to the Cops Poly in the Vanilla World Meet Your Board Coalition Corner Media Updates Available for Your Event Representing on FetLife  Go to the Cops  Susan Wright You CAN go to law enforcement to report assault even if you're kinky. I get so mad when I hear people say, "You can't go to the cops," or "They'll treat you badly because…

    Written on Thursday, 18 December 2014 10:16
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 1st Quarter 2014

    NCSF Newsletter 1stQuarter, 2014 In this issue Erotic Awakenings Take the Consent Violations Survey 2014 Annual Meeting Meet Your Board DC Professional Dominatrixes Rock NCSF Expands Its Legal Resources Polyamory as Orientation? Amicus Brief in Support of Consensual Nonmonogamy Representing on FetLife Erotic Awakening interviews NCSF Board Member Jsin  Listen to NCSF Board Member Jsin's interview about NCSF that took place at the recent Beat Me in St. Louis. Hear what…

    Written on Thursday, 18 December 2014 09:45
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 4th Quarter 2013

    NCSF Newsletter 4th Quarter, 2013 In this issue Happy New Year! NCSF's Consent Violations Survey 2014 Annual Meeting Meet Your Board Sexual Freedom in the News An Obituary for Leigha Fleming Representing on FetLife Happy New Year!   From all of us at the NCSF we hope you had a wonderful holiday season and your new year is already great.   Return to Top Coming Soon! NCSF's Consent Violations Survey  …

    Written on Thursday, 18 December 2014 04:10
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 2nd Quarter 2013

    NCSF Newsletter 2nd Quarter, 2013 In this issue Come talk about BDSM and consent! The DSM-5 Says Kink is OK! Why Support or Join NCSF? Representing on FetLife  Come Talk about BDSM and consent! NCSF's Consent Counts project is holding discussions around the country to gather your input on our Consent Statement so we can move forward to change laws and perceptions of BDSM. Kinky people still have significant legal, political and…

    Written on Thursday, 18 December 2014 03:49
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  • NCSF Newsletter: 1st Quarter 2013

    NCSF Newsletter 1st Quarter, 2013 In this issue NCSF's Coalition Partners Join Together for Consent Summit Meet the Board NCSF presents at Yale Law School's RebLaw NCSF Launches Fire Recovery Fund Testing the Waters Coalition Corner Representing on FetLife NCSF's Coalition Partners Join Together for Consent Summit The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom held its annual Coalition Partner meeting in Phoenix, Arizona from February 8-10, 2013. The Consent Summit took place…

    Written on Thursday, 18 December 2014 03:26
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Press Releases

Press Releases

  • NCSF’s 2014 Roundup

    NCSF’s 2014 Roundup    2014 has been a year of progress for NCSF and for people who are kinky and nonmonogamous. The national conversation about gay marriage, consent, and even Fifty Shades of Grey are transforming mainstream attitudes. The change in the American Psychiatric Association’s DSM-5 stating that BDSM is a healthy form of sexual expression has also had a significant impact on both the courts and public opinion about…

    Written on Sunday, 28 December 2014 15:51

  • National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: Are you ready for the Fifty Shades of Gray Movie?

    Does your media agency have resources for these special interest pieces?  Contact the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom for interviews and information on kink and open relationships. NCSF is the national advocate for consensual adult sexual expression.    Why kink?   There has been a significant interest in BDSM sparked by the wildly successful Fifty Shades of Grey.  Similar topics appeared in recent TV Shows from CSI to House to Desperate Housewives, and even animated shows such as American Dad.      Furthermore many…

    Written on Friday, 19 December 2014 12:30

  • 50 Shades of NCSF Palm Cards

    Are You Ready for Fifty Shades? To coincide with the launch of the movie, get your Fifty Shades of Kink palm cards from NCSF to put out at your club or in local sex shops and bookstores so that people who are looking to find out more about kink know where to go. Contact This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it to request your cards. NCSF’s Fifty Shades of Kink resource page is for people who…

    Written on Friday, 12 December 2014 15:16

  • GayLawNet Joins Forces with NCSF

    NCSF’s Kink Aware Professionals joins forces with GayLawNet   NCSF has expanded the reach of its Kink Aware Professionals by collaborating with GayLawNet, which now offers a way for lawyers in their database to self-identify as Kink Aware Professionals:   “Whenever someone can’t find a lawyer in NCSF’s KAP list, I always refer them to GayLawNet,” says Susan Wright, spokesperson for NCSF. “Many of their gay-friendly lawyers are eager…

    Written on Monday, 01 December 2014 15:10

  • Tides Awards NCSF $1,500 Grant

    NCSF Receives Grant Award NCSF is proud to announce the receipt of a $1,500 grant awarded by Tides Foundation. About Tides #TidesProject “Since 1976, Tides Foundation has worked with over 15,000 individuals and organizations in the mutual endeavor to make the world a better place. These include foundations, donors, corporations, social investors, nonprofit organizations, government institutions, community organizations, activists, social entrepreneurs, and more. We break down the walls between entrepreneurs…

    Written on Monday, 24 November 2014 15:01

  • NCSF Mental Health Survey

    NCSF Mental Health Survey Please take the NCSF Mental Health Survey! We would like to know more about your BDSM practices, mental health and relational violence experiences: NCSF is working with researchers at Sam Houston University’s Department of Psychology and Philosophy who will compare our responses to two other sample populations – one college-aged and the other LGBT. NCSF will use these results to help with our advocacy, benefiting…

    Written on Thursday, 11 September 2014 14:57

  • Military Court Accepts NCSF's Amicus Brief

    Military Court Accepts NCSF’s Amicus Brief in Support of Consensual Nonmonogamy April 24, 2014 – Washington, DC – The Navy and Marine Corps Court of Criminal Appeals has accepted NCSF’s amicus (“friend of the court”) brief advising the court that prosecutors are avoiding the Supreme Court decision, made in Lawrence v. Texas, that moral judgment is not a basis for criminalizing consensual sexual conduct, and that consensual sex should only…

    Written on Sunday, 31 August 2014 14:51

  • Ombudsman Committee Established

    NCSF Appoints Members of the Ombuds Committee   June 3, 2014 - NCSF is proud to announce these appointments to the Ombuds Committee: Desmond Ravenstone, James Huesmann and Bjorn Paulee. The Ombuds Committee handles complaints and concerns regarding the conduct of NCSF officers and staff, and the operations of NCSF institutions. The NCSF Ombuds Committee shall be established as an Advisory Committee, as per NCSF bylaws, to review Coalition administration…

    Written on Tuesday, 03 June 2014 14:47

  • NCSF Files Amicus Brief in Military Court

      NCSF Files Amicus Brief in Support of Consensual Nonmonogamy March 26, 2014 – Washington D.C. – NCSF has filed an amicus brief in a military case involving a marine who engaged in a consensual threesome and because of that was convicted of adultery, attempted consensual sodomy and indecent conduct, a "crime" based solely on undefined sexual conduct inconsistent with "common propriety."   In its brief, NCSF points out that…

    Written on Thursday, 03 April 2014 14:42

  • Annual CP meeting 2014

      NCSF’s Coalition Partners Come Together in Nashville, TN   March 24, 2014 – The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom held its annual Coalition Partner meeting in Nashville, TN from March 14-16, 2014. The Coalition Partners voted in the new Board of Directors for NCSF, approved the 2014 budget, and brainstormed on NCSF’s projects and goals for the coming year.   “The annual meeting gives NCSF's Coalition Partners the opportunity…

    Written on Monday, 24 March 2014 14:34

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