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The 'Red Table Talk' Keeps It All The Way Real About Polyamory And Threesomes In A New Episode

on Thursday, 27 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


“I love men and women equally,” Willow continues. “So, I would definitely want one man and one woman. I feel like I could be polyfidelitous with those two people. I’m not the kind of person that is constantly looking for new sexual experiences. I focus a lot on the emotional connection, and I feel like if I were to find two people of the different genders that I really connected with and we had a romantic and sexual connection, I don’t feel like I would feel the need to try to go find more.”

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Kuldrin's Krypt Interview with Susan Wright

on Monday, 24 June 2019. Posted in NCSF in the News!, Front Page Headline

Consent Counts! with Kuldrin's Krypt

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The ‘free love’ utopia behind your forks and knives

on Saturday, 22 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


Oneida was founded in 1848 by John Humphrey Noyes, a former theological student who believed that paradise could be found on Earth through nontraditional sexual and familial structures. This included communal child raising; “complex marriage,” a term Noyes invented to describe how all Oneidans were married to one another; and sexual rituals, like male continence. Noyes built an enormous mansion in upstate New York for his “family” and amassed hundreds of followers. For years, the community succeeded. But after Noyes died, the community pivoted—into a thriving business.

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BDSM as a Tonic for Serious Illness

on Friday, 21 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Scientific American

This broadly accepting community facilitates connections that can help a person fight against the often alienating experience of illness. Where many of us assume vanilla sex between heterosexual partners to be a private matter, we recognize that kink, BDSM and queer sex have long been grounded in communities of advocacy, activism and mutual support. That isn’t to say that every person feels connected immediately when they discover their sexuality, but it is to say that the communities are there to be discovered, and they can be lifesavers.

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Shared fantasies: Justin Lehmiller on the science of sexual desire

on Friday, 21 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Bay Area Reporter

Often people wrestle with coming to terms with their sexual fantasies because they sense they're rare. The less common we believe our fantasies might be the more likely we are to build up some shame and trepidations around them. By laying bare the reality that these wide-ranging sexual fantasies are rather common (in other words, quite normal), hopefully people will embrace those fantasies for what they are, a healthy manifestation of their sexuality.

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Being in a Polyamorous Relationship Prepared Me for Monogamy

on Thursday, 20 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


McCullough also speaks to another way polyamory teaches healthy relationship skills: Certain topics need to be brought up consistently, especially as things in the relationship change. Prior to being polyamorous, I never told a partner, “This will be an ongoing conversation. When something changes in our relationship or one of us starts feeling a certain way about this, let’s talk about this again.” Before polyamory, I would typically have just one conversation with a partner about an issue we were struggling with, and then we would never resurface it. Ongoing conversations take into account that your needs and wants will change as a relationship evolves. This is true for all types of relationships — even platonic ones with family, friends, and coworkers.

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on Tuesday, 18 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

The complicated life of a black woman who gets off on being a sex slave.


There are days when I feel like the entire world expects me to be strong, simply because that is what’s expected of black women. We must solve every problem, cook every meal, dry every tear, and make everyone else’s lives happier. But sometimes, I don’t want to make any decisions. Surrendering to my master, then, means momentarily unburdening myself from the weight I carry as a divorced black mother. My obligations are so draining, I relish the comfort I feel when I can safely give myself over to someone who respects, loves, and values me.

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Interview with Co Founders of Black Poly Pride

on Wednesday, 12 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, NCSF News

Ruby Bouie Johnson, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, interviews the co founders of Black Poly Pride. The inaugural event is July 11 14, 2019 in Dallas, Texas. Go to for details on events, registration, and accommodations.

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