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What Do Polys Want?: An Overview of the 2012 Loving More Survey

on Monday, 24 June 2013. Hits 2490

Loving More Updates including the preliminary results of the 2012 Loving More Polyamory Survey.

Results of the 2012 Loving More Polyamory Survey

Polyamory Research Survey Background From February 10th to April 2nd 2012, Loving More ( ,with the endorsement of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) conducted an internet-based survey of over 4000 participants who self-identify as polyamorous. This is the largest survey of self-identified polyamorous individuals to date. Individuals were recruited through local and regional listserves, Loving More email list, the Poly Researchers list, the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality's (IASHS) student and alumni lists, and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists' (AASECT) AltSex list. With the exception of five questions, all the questions were drawn from among those asked in the NORC's[1] biennial General Social Survey ( (GSS) in order to compare a sample of the polyamory community with the general US adult population.

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The DSM-5 Says Kink is OK!

on Saturday, 22 June 2013. Hits 12009

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The American Psychiatric Association has depathologized kinky sex – including cross-dressing, fetishes, and BDSM – in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5). Now the paraphilias are considered to be “unusual sexual interests,” while those who have sex with children or people who haven’t consented, or who deliberately cause harm to themselves or others, may be diagnosed with a Paraphilic Disorder.

“The APA has made it clear that being kinky is not a mental disorder,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “That means people no longer have to fear being diagnosed as mentally ill just because they belong to a BDSM group. We’ve already seen the impact – NCSF immediately saw a sharp rise in the success rate of child custody cases for kinky parents after the proposed DSM-5 criteria was released three years ago.”

NCSF would like to thank everyone who participated in signing our DSM Revision Petition and for telling the APA about their own stories of discrimination and persecution. NCSF also thanks every member of the APA Paraphilias Subworkgroup for responding to our concerns, and drawing a hard line between consensual adult kinky sex and those who willfully engage in nonconsensual or harmful activities.

NCSF is proud to build on the work of kink-aware professionals who have come before us, including Race Bannon and Guy Baldwin, who helped make seminal changes in the DSM-IV in 1994.

The following are some statements about the various paraphilias in the DSM-5. Although highly clinical in language, they show the APA’s intent to not demand treatment for healthy consenting adult sexual expression:

“A paraphilia is a necessary but not a sufficient condition for having a paraphilic disorder, and a paraphilia by itself does not necessarily justify or require clinical intervention.” p. 686

“In contrast, if they declare no distress, exemplified by anxiety, obsessions, guilt or shame, about these paraphilic impulses, and are not hampered by them in pursuing other personal goals, they could be ascertained as having masochistic sexual interest but should not be diagnosed with a sexual masochism disorder.” p. 694

“Many individuals who self-identify as fetishist practitioners do not necessarily report clinical impairment in association with their fetish-associated behaviors. Such individuals could be considered as having a fetish but not fetishistic disorder.” p. 701

“Clinical assessment of distress or impairment, like clinical assessment of transvestic sexual arousal, is usually dependent on the individual’s self-report.” p. 703

NCSF relies entirely on your donations to advance the rights of consenting adults and to do advocacy like our DSM Revision Project. Please donate now!


NCSF’s Coalition Partners Join Together for Consent Summit

on Tuesday, 19 February 2013. Hits 1345

NCSF’s Coalition Partners Join Together for Consent Summit

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom held its annual Coalition Partner meeting in Phoenix, Arizona from February 8-10, 2013. The Consent Summit took place Friday evening, and Coalition Partners were able to participate via streaming video to give their input on the new Consent Statement. Go to to see the Consent Statement and comment on it.

“The Consent Statement is now launched to the BDSM-leather-Fetish communities for input until July 1st,” says Judy Guerin, Director of Consent Counts. “This statement outlines the current legal climate in regards to BDSM practices, and describes the ethical responsibilities of kinky people, as well. The Consent Statement will be used to change assault laws so that consensual BDSM won’t be mistaken for assault.”

One focus of the weekend was how to move forward now that a fire has destroyed the NCSF office. An emergency fund drive is underway to raise money to replace what was lost in the fire. Please help us reach our goal!

The new board of directors voted in Kevin Carlson as Chairman, Mark Richards as Secretary, and John Baku as Treasurer. The CPs also heard reports on NCSF projects and some of the stats include:

· Incident Reporting and Response received nearly 500 calls for help

· The Kink Aware Professionals list is up to nearly 1,200 professionals

· The Media Outreach Project gave over 60 interviews

· Over 600 NCSF Facebook page members and nearly 5,000 twitter followers

· 98 Coalition Partners!

Friday evening’s Pizza Meet & Greet was sponsored by the AZ TNG, while lunch Saturday was sponsored by FetLife and lunch on Sunday at the APEX BBQ was sponsored by AZ Men of Leather. NCSF thanks APEX for welcoming CP representatives, NCSF board members and staff to their APEX Dungeon Party on Saturday night, and at their Sunday afternoon BBQ and NCSF Meet & Greet. NCSF also thanks Kelly Beaton, Master Bleu Sadist, slave alena girl, and Karen for volunteering and helping out in all sorts of necessary ways at the meeting!

The Board of NCSF currently consists of:

Kevin Carlson – Chairman – Boise, ID

Mark Richards – Secretary – New York, NY

John Baku – Treasurer – Vancouver, BC

Race Bannon – San Francisco, CA

Laura Carlson – Boise, ID

Jim Fleckenstein – Manassas, VA

Leigha Fleming – Fort Worth, TX
Vivienne Kramer – San Diego, CA
Mercury – Nashville, TN

Stephanie "Sassy" Lynn – Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN

Julian Wolf – Albuquerque, NM
Susan Wright – Phoenix, AZ

NCSF helps you, so please help us in our time of need! Support us by becoming a member or donating today!


NCSF Action Alert – The Advocate

on Thursday, 20 December 2012. Hits 2543


Please contact The Advocate and protest their removal of their Op-Ed by Jill D. Weinberg entitled “Kink as The Next LGBT Rights Frontier: Why handcuffs and submission may lead to even more LGBT liberation” posted on December 17, 2012.

The comments were very negative against kinky people and demanded The Advocate remove the Op-Ed because it was harming the LGBT movement. The Op-Ed was up for less than 12 hours before The Advocate removed it from their website.

Please contact The Advocate and respectfully tell them that their silencing of this important issue leads to more persecution and discrimination against kinky people. Tell them you want to see more coverage of kink issues in The Advocate. And tell them that 1 in 3 people who identify as kinky are persecuted because of it, and the question of “Kink Rights” as the next frontier should be taken seriously.

Email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

Online: (The Advocate website is refusing links from the NCSF website, so please use the email address above.)

To see the Op-Ed, you can go to the NCSF blog:

or to the Google cache:

Coalition Partner AIS Raises Big Bucks for NCSF

on Wednesday, 10 October 2012. Hits 1887

Adventures in Sexuality raised over $4,000 for NCSF at their COPE conference in Columbus, Ohio (Sept 14-16). Along with a Special Drawing and table donations, the "COPE Grand Prize Auction" received 2 separate donations of $1,800 each from the auction winners! All of the funds went to NCSF, with AIS donating over $2,300 in prizes: 3 Winter Wickedness tickets, 2 nights hotel rooms, 6 meals and 1 piece of AIS Kink Labs furniture to each of the 2 winners.

NCSF gives a big thanks Barak, Sheba and everyone at AIS for putting together a fabulous event. WE also thank them for hosting NCSF Board Members Mercury and Julian Wolf so they could spread the word about NCSF projects and programs that help kinky people. It really shows that size doesn’t matter when it comes to passionate support for NCSF! You can find out more about AIS at:

Last Chance to Take the Consent Survey!

on Wednesday, 19 September 2012. Hits 980

We will be closing the survey in two weeks. We need everyone to respond.

4,400 kinky people have taken the survey!

Over 30% say they had a pre-negotiated limit violated in a BDSM scene or relationship,

And almost 15% have had their safeword ignored,

Yet over 95% say a person can revoke consent to any activity.

If you started the survey but didn’t finish, please go back and complete it (comments are optional). The link above will take you to where you left off.

The results of the Consent Counts Survey and a draft statement on consent will be presented to the Coalition Partners at the NCSF Annual Meeting in Phoenix, AZ, February 8-10, 2013.

To participate in discussions of consent online with kinky people both in the US and around the world, join our Consent Counts group at

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NCSF YouTube Channel Launched!

on Tuesday, 11 September 2012. Hits 1065

Check out the new NCSF Public Service Announcements you can include in your podcasts! Alternative Life Coach Bo Blaze speaks out for NCSF on all our projects and programs in these 10 different PSAs.

Join FetLife's John Baku at NCSF Consent Counts discussions at FetFest

on Monday, 27 August 2012. Hits 59075

NCSF will be loud and proud at FetFest this Labor Day weekend in Maryland, with lots of fundraisers and 6 Consent Counts discussions at FetFest villages and in open community spaces.

FetLife’s John Baku will be attending the NCSF Consent Counts discussions. Registered attendees can participate:

Friday 6-7pm @Queer Village – Queer Village Potluck and NCSF Consent discussion

Friday 7-8pm @TNG Village – TNG, Age Play and Poly Villages Talk about Consent with NCSF

Saturday 9:30-10:30am @Goddess & Femdom Villages – Champagne Brunch and Consent

Saturday 1:30-2:30pm @Dining Hall – Sex and Hypnosis Munch about Consent

Saturday 7:30-8:30pm @Rope Barn – Open-to-all Consent Counts at the Rope Village

Sunday 12-1:30pm @Dungeon Tent – Open-to-all Consent Counts by Susan Wright

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