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on Saturday, 24 March 2012. Hits 1267

"Egypt police arrest sex swingers"

EGYPTIAN police have arrested a married couple who advertised on Facebook to sexually swap spouses and to host orgies at their Cairo apartment.

The case involving a 30-year-old accountant and his wife of the same age had been referred to prosecutors, the official said, adding that their Facebook posting had been titled "Wife-swapping."

In April 2009, a Cairo court sentenced a man to seven years and his wife to three for setting up a swingers' club, according to their lawyer. The court said they confessed to having sex with other couples.

Extra-marital sex is generally frowned upon in Egypt, although couples go ahead with it after obtaining informal marriages, and could lead to prostitution charges.

""Fifty Shades of Grey" a big hit in the suburbs"

on Friday, 23 March 2012. Hits 265

CBS

The erotic book, "Fifty Shades of Grey" is now a best-seller because women who can't put it down are sharing it with just about everyone they know.

The novel by British author E.L. James tells the story of a virginal college student seduced by an older chief executive officer. The book's being called "Twilight for moms."

But there's nothing PG-13 about it. Sari Cooper a sex and relationship expert, said of the book, "The more graphic domination, submission sex scenes, I think that's why it's creating more of a buzz. What woman are saying is, 'This is so hot.'"

Mostly through word of mouth, the novel and its two sequels, "Fifty Shades Darker" and "Fifty Shades Freed," have topped the New York Times e-books chart.

Cooper said, "When women enter their late 30s or their 40s, they come into their own sexually, they're more willing and confident to start thinking about what they want, especially if they've been in a long-term relationship. So maybe it has hit that group and they happen to be at that age, so that they're really willing to be able to talk about it." ...

"Why Hollywood Is Hot for ‘50 Shades of Grey’"

on Friday, 23 March 2012. Hits 909

The Wrap

“Fifty Shades of Grey,” a book about steamy, transgressive sex, has Hollywood turning 50 shades of hot.

It seems like forever since Hollywood has gotten this sweaty over a title. For women. About sex.

A bidding war has broken out over the e-book by British television writer E.L. James, which has raced up The New York Times best-seller list. It tells the story of a college student, Anastasia Steele, who finds herself in a sexual relationship with a 27-year-old billionaire Christian Grey that involves submission, sadomasochism and a lot of hot hoochy-koochy.

“My heartbeat quickens, and my face flushes again,” the protagonist confesses after meeting billionaire Grey in a Vancouver office. “Why does he have such an unnerving effect on me? His overwhelming good looks maybe? The way his eyes blaze at me? The way he strokes his index finger against his lower lip? I wish he’d stop doing that.”

Think “9 ½ Weeks” meets “The Social Network.”

Sony’s co-chairman Amy Pascal herself pitched the studio’s bid for rights to make a movie from the book this week. And almost every other major studio has gone after the rights too, including Paramount, Universal, Warner Brothers and Fox 2000.

Everyone is using what leverage they have to convince the author that they are right for the material. At Paramount, executives reportedly put together a video with female executives extolling the virtues of the book. At Universal, production chief Donna Langley led the charge.

Why? “There’s something going on with this book that we haven’t seen in a long time,” said a veteran producer, who hopes to make the film. “It seems to be the demographic that hasn’t responded to a book like this in a long time. It’s the first of its kind, about s&m, bondage, power. It could be a big title.” ...

"Landlord evicts operators of Merritt Island swingers club"

on Friday, 23 March 2012. Hits 701

Florida Today

Before even hosting its first members-only get-together, a rumored swingers club has been evicted for failure to pay rent, a landlord says.

Minglers Social Club raised eyebrows at the Government Center in Viera with its proposal to renovate the old Riverside Bank building off State Road 520 and host weekend soirées.

Described in zoning applications as a “banquet hall,” the site plan depicted a dance floor, bar, stage, DJ booth, five carpeted offices and a private conference room featuring twin 7-by-7-foot platforms — but no kitchen facilities.

Interior remodeling began. But Minglers officials failed to pay rent this month, said Ralph Perrone, the building owner. He served an eviction notice on March 5, and the tenant turned in the keys Wednesday.

“They ran out of money. They pulled a building permit and they did some construction inside the building. They even bought a limo before they had the doors open,” Perrone said.

Thursday afternoon, the Merritt Island Redevelopment Agency was scheduled to discuss the alleged swingers club. Rather, no debate occurred.

“I just didn’t think that was an appropriate place,” said Greg Lugar, the redevelopment agency’s executive director. “It’s not just the family restaurants, but there’s a dance studio for kids next to it. There’s a lot of traffic in that area.”

Lugar said he was unsure whether swingers clubs are even legal on the Space Coast. ...

Loving More Survey

on Monday, 19 March 2012. Hits 1773

Please help with this survey about polyamory!

We want to be sure that a diversity of polyamory practitioners participate in this survey. There isn't much time left, so please go now to take it. It takes about 4 minutes to complete and is really interesting with questions about poly marriage and personal satisfaction.

As Jim Fleckenstein, Board Member of NCSF, says:

Please post this link as widely as possible, as having quality research on our community is an important early step to winning respect and
tolerance for our relationship choices.

The direct link to the survey is: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/SYQT7D7

Thank you so much!

Jim Fleckenstein
co-researcher
co-editor, /What Psychology Professionals Should Know About Polyamory/

Loving More Survey

 

"'Fifty Shades Of Grey': Publishing's Sexiest Trend"

on Monday, 19 March 2012. Hits 470

NPR

Publishing has a new unlikely heroine: an unknown author named E L James who recently scored a seven-figure book deal with Vintage Books to publish her erotica trilogy, Fifty Shades of Grey.

Brimming with purple prose and racy imagery, the series had already sold more than 250,000 eBook and paperback copies through Australia's Writer's Coffee Shop Publishing. The New York Times ran a photograph of the book on a shelf at Watchung Booksellers, where a tag tantalized readers: "Yes, this is THE book everybody is talking about."

The buzz has catapulted the book to No. 1 on the New York Times paperback best-seller list, but there's one thing no one is talking about — the origins of this kinky best-seller and its implications for the industry.

The book emerged from the steamy land of fan fiction, an online community of readers who write unauthorized extensions of their favorite stories. On FanFiction.net, readers have produced a mind-boggling mountain of work: 583,000 free Harry Potter stories, 197,000 free Twilight stories and 46,000 free Lord of the Rings stories. ...

"‘50 Shades of Grey,’ a Self-Published E-Book, Is the Future of Publishing"

on Monday, 19 March 2012. Hits 1171

50 Shades of Grey may not revolutionize porn, romance, chick-lit, or literature. But this one-click wonder is the future of how we’ll read.

The Daily Beast

Just days ago, an agent, editor, book critic, and literary blogger sat around a table at a private downtown club, discussing the book no one had heard of. “And I told my cousin, there is no bestselling book I don’t know,” said the agent, laughing, who is celebrated for getting her stable of literary authors big advances with all the best imprints. “But I was wrong.”

Every so often a manuscript, like an impudent toddler, rises on unsteady feet and toddles onto the bestseller list without so much as a by-your-leave to that ignorant publishing foursome. Such a work is E.L. James’s 50 Shades of Grey, which, out of a teeny e-publishing community in Australia, managed the neat trick of vaulting to the top of the New York Times e-book and print bestseller lists, garnering a seven-figure deal from Vintage, and leaving readers clamoring for the as-yet-unpublished rest of the trilogy, all without ever being in print in the United States at all.

From Twilight to The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo to The Lost Carolina Finger Club (I made that last one up), we’ve come to expect our bestsellers to rise from obscure circumstances. Only The New Yorker’s nonfiction scribes are allowed to churn out blockbusters from a known address. But readers who found the popularity of those Swedish sext-hack-repeat sagas somewhat mystifying may have an even harder time with Shades of Grey.  ...

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