NCSF on Twitter   Subscribe to the NCSF RSS Feed   NCSF Blog

"Fit to be tied"

on Friday, 04 May 2012. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Creative Loafing

We met at a local bar on a Monday night, as friends do, to talk about the meaning of life and such. As we finished our second beer, he cleared his throat.

"We should probably discuss what we like to make sure we're on the same page," he said.


This was how my first BDSM relationship began — with a conversation.

The topic comes on the heels of the hype created by the controversial New York Times best-seller Fifty Shades of Grey, an erotic trilogy where a virginal college student participates in a BDSM relationship as a result of the sexual interests of a new lover. Dubbed "mommy porn" because of its suburban female demographic and strong sexual nature, the e-book shot to No. 1 on the New York Times e-book fiction best-seller list, leaving America to wonder, "What does this say about modern American women?"

Although I haven't read it, mostly due to its seemingly cheesy Twilight nature, the book's popularity thrills me. Its success strikes me as a slap across the face to slut-shamers the nation over, with women assuming control of their sex lives. Not because they're going to run out and buy a bunch of S&M gear (although, trends show they have in some parts of the country), but because it means women are curious and hungry to explore other facets of intimacy, even if they don't stick with it. ...

Social Bookmarks

Comments (0)

Leave a comment

You are commenting as guest. Optional login below.

Cancel Submitting comment...

Latest Reader Comments

  • NCSF Blog has a huge amount of helpful information. Thanks


    27. November, 2015 |

  • Whichever vacuum you decide on, one important factor to take into consideration is filters.
    To apply it make sure how the crevice tool...
  • Just go back from Dean’s side (how you came in),
    and also you can walk right inside the stairs on the
    left to succeed in the...

    uv keyboard

    20. November, 2015 |

  • Children belong with their parents! Love has no boundaries and is to precious to be limited by "societal norms". My heart goes out to...


    02. November, 2015 |

  • A guilty verdict is suffice. There seems to me to be little to no excuse for this sort of thing to go on as there is more than enough...


    28. October, 2015 |

  • The human condition never fails to amaze and astound, and this woman fits that description. What a celebration of life this is.......30


    15. October, 2015 |