For those of you who don’t know, S&M stands for sadomasochism, the act of delivering and receiving pain as a form of pleasure.
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Dirk Pitt
What we have here is a he said/she said issue. Until a formal investigation is completed nobody knows who is telling the truth or what shade of truth is being told. Of course counsel for each side paints their client as the victim and the other side as the guilty party – that’s their job! From just what we see here I think the only takeaway is to be cognizant of the risks of activities such as this when you play with someone else.
TURN ON YOUR BRAIN
I’ve been watching for the last decade how gold digging exploiters have found bdsm as a means to pad their pockets especially women using the Internet calling themselves ‘Fin Doms’. There is a huge amount of these con artists all over bdsm related social networking sites. It’s GROSS. Frankly I am not surprised and I am pleased that people are fighting back. As a professional Dominatrix of 13 years I find these con artists to be repulsive and believe they should be shunned not encouraged. I have aggressively spoken out against the practice of ongoing financial domination just to be met with excuses such as ‘the men asked for it” or “if it’s consensual it’s no ones business”. I am hugely about first and fourteenth amendment rights though I’m also aware of the reality that many humans are all too willing to take advantage of people. Most of these so called ‘fin Doms’ are total frauds and do harm and rather than expanding sexual freedom they are working against it! Ive had clients who would be booking lots of sessions and I had to stop and ask them if they were able to afford the cost knowing that they were not wealthy individuals. I am NOT here to drain someone’s savings. To think that is what bdsm or fetish is about is disgusting. I have overhead to maintain in keeping a studio in an industrial zone (never in a residential zone) and it costs money to have a studio any way you look at it- I provide a therapeutic modality and my heart and mind is dedicated to being a positive in the lives of the people who seek my domination services. Not everyone can get involved in their local bdsm scene, in fact I would be willing to wager that MOST people don’t have that option. There is a need for such a service and I believe the people offering the service should offer something worthwhile, healthy for all concerned, while being conscientious of where the studio is located as well as every type of safety protocol. The Dommes I know are amazing people and have set the standard. A standard that women like ‘Jade’ ignore. Motives are everything. I’ve personally crossed paths with a few ‘ladies’ just like Jade. They are cut throats not only to every man that walks in their path- they are cut throats towards women who are willing to call them out as the frauds they are. Thankfully the vocation is dominated by quality human beings. Dommes such as Mistress Precious in Houston who has hosted a highly professional studio for almost 3 decades. There is no comparison between the gold digger featured in this article and a pro Domme such as Mistress Precious and others. The Internet has allowed for many con artists. Is it really ‘ok’ just because someone says it’s ok in the moment? Such as an elderly man diagnosed as this man had been? I do not think so. SHE should’ve been thinking of his well being in addition to her own. Glad to see the exploiters being taken to task!!!
TURN ON YOUR BRAIN
WRONG. once she knew that his mental capacity was compromised by his health she needed to acknowledge that. He wasn’t fully able to give proper consent once diagnosed with alzheimer’s. Are you kidding me? No you’re not. I hope you’re not a bdsm professional.
Goddess Jude
Wow! I expected support not bashing. The point is that this guy is a liar! He does NOT have Alzheimer’s disease nor does he have dementia. At the end of our relationship he threatened me and said he would do just as he is. I’m NOT a con artist and I’m NOT a gold digger by no means. This was a 4 and a half year relationship gone very bad. So quick to judge. . . I’m disappointed.
What we have here is a he said/she said issue. Until a formal investigation is completed nobody knows who is telling the truth or what shade of truth is being told. Of course counsel for each side paints their client as the victim and the other side as the guilty party – that’s their job! From just what we see here I think the only takeaway is to be cognizant of the risks of activities such as this when you play with someone else.
I’ve been watching for the last decade how gold digging exploiters have found bdsm as a means to pad their pockets especially women using the Internet calling themselves ‘Fin Doms’. There is a huge amount of these con artists all over bdsm related social networking sites. It’s GROSS. Frankly I am not surprised and I am pleased that people are fighting back. As a professional Dominatrix of 13 years I find these con artists to be repulsive and believe they should be shunned not encouraged. I have aggressively spoken out against the practice of ongoing financial domination just to be met with excuses such as ‘the men asked for it” or “if it’s consensual it’s no ones business”. I am hugely about first and fourteenth amendment rights though I’m also aware of the reality that many humans are all too willing to take advantage of people. Most of these so called ‘fin Doms’ are total frauds and do harm and rather than expanding sexual freedom they are working against it! Ive had clients who would be booking lots of sessions and I had to stop and ask them if they were able to afford the cost knowing that they were not wealthy individuals. I am NOT here to drain someone’s savings. To think that is what bdsm or fetish is about is disgusting. I have overhead to maintain in keeping a studio in an industrial zone (never in a residential zone) and it costs money to have a studio any way you look at it- I provide a therapeutic modality and my heart and mind is dedicated to being a positive in the lives of the people who seek my domination services. Not everyone can get involved in their local bdsm scene, in fact I would be willing to wager that MOST people don’t have that option. There is a need for such a service and I believe the people offering the service should offer something worthwhile, healthy for all concerned, while being conscientious of where the studio is located as well as every type of safety protocol. The Dommes I know are amazing people and have set the standard. A standard that women like ‘Jade’ ignore. Motives are everything. I’ve personally crossed paths with a few ‘ladies’ just like Jade. They are cut throats not only to every man that walks in their path- they are cut throats towards women who are willing to call them out as the frauds they are. Thankfully the vocation is dominated by quality human beings. Dommes such as Mistress Precious in Houston who has hosted a highly professional studio for almost 3 decades. There is no comparison between the gold digger featured in this article and a pro Domme such as Mistress Precious and others. The Internet has allowed for many con artists. Is it really ‘ok’ just because someone says it’s ok in the moment? Such as an elderly man diagnosed as this man had been? I do not think so. SHE should’ve been thinking of his well being in addition to her own. Glad to see the exploiters being taken to task!!!
WRONG. once she knew that his mental capacity was compromised by his health she needed to acknowledge that. He wasn’t fully able to give proper consent once diagnosed with alzheimer’s. Are you kidding me? No you’re not. I hope you’re not a bdsm professional.
Wow! I expected support not bashing. The point is that this guy is a liar! He does NOT have Alzheimer’s disease nor does he have dementia. At the end of our relationship he threatened me and said he would do just as he is. I’m NOT a con artist and I’m NOT a gold digger by no means. This was a 4 and a half year relationship gone very bad. So quick to judge. . . I’m disappointed.