Consensual non-monogamy comes naturally for some, and others not so much. Either is cool and normal, and no one is more or less enlightened for feeling one way. The only thing true non-monogamy should be is consensual and ethical for all parties involved. “It isn’t for everyone,” says Kyle, a comedian in Los Angeles who has experience with consensual non-monogamy. “But it’s for way more people than you think.”