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“Don’t Suck At FetLife, Or A Guide To Kinky Social Media Sites”

Social News Daily by Kim LaCapria Facebook and Twitter are social networking standard names, but maybe you’ve got a bit of an interest in kinky social media — and sites like FetLife are quietly, discreetly growing in prominence amid the more vanilla social networks. Of kinky social media options, you’ll find …

“Spank You Very Much”

Is S&M dangerous? Let’s look at the evidence. Slate Earlier this year, I wrote two articles about BDSM—bondage, dominance/submission, and sadomasochism. I argued that BDSM, unlike homosexuality, was inherently problematic and wasn’t an orientation. Defenders of BDSM—Dan Savage, Jessica Wakeman, Clarisse Thorn, Jillian Keenan, and dozens of Slate commenters—wrote back, …

“Swinging the key to a happy marriage? Don’t count on it”

NY Post By Naomi Schaefer Riley “Poly-Cocktails,” I learned last week, doesn’t refer to tropical drinks or even complicated ones. Rather, it’s the name of a Lower East Side party for people who are done with monogamy. This revelation, care of a Rolling Stone article that’s been making the rounds, …

“Taut and Bound”

Wallace Prize Third Place Nonfiction Yale Daily News By Isabel Ortiz A few weeks ago, Lady Elizabeth had her pain slave over for coffee and a “medical scene.” He had brought his camera with him, and, lying supine on the operating table, he managed to snap a few pictures of her …

“What Rolling Stone didn’t get about ‘Millennials’ Sexual Revolution'”

LA Times By Emmett Rensin Even after reading Rolling Stone’s recent article “Tales From the Millennials’ Sexual Revolution,” you might not have realized it was about polyamory. It was easy to miss. In several thousand words, the term appeared only one time. And no one could be blamed if the …

“Kink.com, Local BDSM Porn Company, May Leave S.F. Over Condom Requirements”

SF Weekly Local BDSM porn company Kink.com has faced growing pressure from the state legislature and regulatory agencies to use condoms on its shoots, and now, the company may confront a lawsuit from a performer who faced an HIV scare in the porn industry last year. A demand letter obtained …

“Bringing Sexy Mac: The risks of sex positivity and advocacy”

The MAC Weekly By Ariel Estrella   Last summer, I started a long-term project on consent within the Fifty Shades of Grey series as seen through BDSM and marriage contracts. Only halfway through the summer did I pay attention to reactions to the topic. It was only after people unexpectedly …