Why Do People Choose Polyamory?
Psychology Today
Just as there are many different forms a polyamorous relationship can take, there are many different reasons people choose polyamory. We’re not always conscious of the reasons we do things, and sometimes we even make up reasons which have little to do with our real motivations.
The problem for the judge was that the cpomplainants withheld important relevant information and changed their stories significantly during the trial, and it was this that led to the verdict, as Merrit writes, the judge specifically says he events may have happened. He also made mention of understanding inconsistencies of memories, but that these were grossly greater than that. . These are intelligent complainants with undoubtedly good legal advice, so perhaps the cries that victims are not heard, are unjust and there is a lesson for us: the law will not work if you don’t tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Another angle to the story is the supposition that because Jian was charming and influential in the Canadian Arts scene, he had power over the lives and success of the art world complainants. This is important for the context since grown adults are supposed to be
able to just say no, or at least report immediately, not wait over a decade. However we make decisions in the moment sometimes for our own more immediate good and safety, which unfortunately may have left the impression with Jian that this alleged behaviour was acceptable, especially when the same women come back after with sexual invitations. Logic would tell him things are all good. From Canada