DO use your common sense.
Provide your identification if asked.
When transporting toys, keep them in your trunk rather than on the seat.
Stand aside when saying, “I don’t give you permission to enter” or “I don’t give you permission to search,” because you can’t stop a law enforcement officer if they think they have probable cause of a crime being committed.
If this is a domestic violence call, then ask your partner to talk to the police. Explain that you’re engaged in mutually pleasurable kink activities between consenting adults that don’t involve serious injury.
Since certain forms of BDSM are likely illegal in your State, request that you speak to your attorney before answering any questions beyond “mutually pleasurable kink activities between consenting adults…“