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What Does It Really Mean To Be A Bottom?

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“Again, the language we use to describe our sexual gratification plays an important role. Does a bottom ‘receive’ or do they ‘take’? To push this idea further, the submissive in a kink relationship has the ultimate power over the sexual play taking place. They are the one setting boundaries, expressing what they want and having a safe word. When all is said and done, they are the decision-maker in the bedroom. The fun comes from pretending that they are not in charge at all.”

https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2021/10/10697898/being-a-bottom-meaning-submissive-sex