“Unfortunately, that’s also one of the tricky parts about sex — when you’re really aroused, it can completely cloud your sense of judgment. If you’re barrelling full steam towards something, you’re not always in the best place to be thoughtful and considerate to others — or even aware of your own needs and limitations.” https://www.askmen.com/sex/sex_tips/mistakes-to-avoid-when-trying-out-kink.html