“It’s funny: Our expectations at kink parties are higher than in other settings like mainstream dance clubs or even some workplaces. We don’t tolerate harassment of any kind and demand that everyone be treated with respect. I think kink spaces are where society meets intimacy. We used to view sex as something you do at home, but now you can mark your sexual exploration on a calendar.” https://www.insider.com/dungeon-monitor-bdsm-kink-sex-parties-safety-consent-2023-7