When You’re Polyamorous, Figuring Out Who’s Paying For What Can Be Complicated
“There’s this interesting paradox in polyamory where it’s both a privilege to be polyamorous and also a privilege to not be polyamorous,” said Jessica Daylover, a 37-year-old writer who lives in Reno and is the cofounder of a website and Patreon called Remodeled Love. “Because in some ways, if you’re splitting the mortgage across four adults, that makes your life easier. But in other ways, if you need money to go date six different people in your city, and you can’t have guests at your house, so every date requires a restaurant and a hotel room, that requires some money.” https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/sophielucidoj/polyamory-finances