I Learnt How To Be an ‘Ethical Slut’ Through Polyamory

“These two years have been an exercise in getting rid of the hold that toxic monogamy had on me. Monogamy tells you that you’re solely for your partner’s happiness, as they are for yours. And that if you like someone besides them, that is not true love. So we fall into this habit of always seeking “the one”, and believe that when we find that person, we wouldn’t need anyone else. In the process, we forget ourselves, our own needs, our happiness. I’ve experienced relationships where I’ve completely diminished and reduced myself.”

https://www.vice.com/en/article/v7mqby/polyamory-monogamy-relationships-multiple-partners