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Why Don’t Millennials and Gen Zers Identify as Swingers?

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“So while you can use swinger (or any other label) to convey, “Hey, this is my husband, but yes, we are flirting with you and trying to bone,” you could also just say that. That’s what I do in swinger spaces. I don’t focus on whether I’m technically polyamorous, a swinger, open, or something else. Instead, I focus on fucking, which is exactly what my girlfriend and I did with half of the swingers at the resort. It didn’t matter that we weren’t “technically” swingers; we still had one hell of a time.”