“Today, we’ve got an essay about knowing what you want and asking for it directly. That’s a very vanilla way of saying this episode is about kink. Aly Tadros had no experience with domination in the bedroom, but she was intrigued. In her essay, she tells the story of her first B.D.S.M. relationship, and then we talk about taking kink outside the bedroom and how it’s changed the way Aly approaches her entire life. This is Modern Love.” https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/01/podcasts/modern-love-domination-kink-bdsm.html
