Metro.co.uk
by Siam Goorwich
If your only reference for the life of a male dominant is 50 Shades of Grey, you have a lot to learn.
We caught up with award winning male dominant Master Dominic, to find out what life is really like when you kick people in the balls for a living.
How does a professional male dominant start his day?
My day starts quietly – it’s relatively banal really: have breakfast, check e-mails, shower and turn the computer on to start work. I could make something more interesting up, but that’s pretty much it.
My sense of humour/tolerance for people doesn’t kick in until at least an hour after I’ve woken up so everyone who values their extremities continuing to be attached to their body gives me a wide berth. But from there
How many clients do you have on an average day/ week?
You get a hell of a lot of timewasters, so a busy day can suddenly become a very empty one and vice versa. It varies massively though; you’ll get a week with three sessions a day, and then a week with two sessions full stop.
On your website you mention your ‘exacting standards’ – can you give us an idea of what these are?
I expect you to be polite, concise and honest, and in return I will be too. If you send me an e-mail written in text speak calling me ‘mate’, you’re not getting a reply. If you’ve failed to get it right that early on we’re not a match.
That’s part of the vetting process. You get people who want to fight you for dominance and I have no time for that. Part of being good at the job is being able to assert yourself effectively, of course, but there’s only so much you can do if someone isn’t prepared to buckle under. So, stating that I have standards, and then going on to explain them underneath with the ‘standards based on obedience and mutual respect’ line is a way of establishing the dynamic and setting boundaries from the minute you first get in touch. …