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Can ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Relationships Work? Relationship Therapists Weigh In

Regardless of the exact agreements at play, a “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” relationship structure allows people to receive only the information they actually want to receive, within a container that is safe, loving, and consensual. “It offers a clear and intentional way to create a filter valve on the flow …

How Do You Prefer to Meet Your Partner’s Partner?

Meeting your partner’s partner in a polyamorous relationship can be a significant step in establishing open communication and fostering a sense of community. Here are some ways to approach meeting your partner’s partner: Clear Communication: Before arranging any meeting, ensure that all parties involved are on the same page. Openly …

Swingers and Security Clearances: How Private Behavior Impacts Personnel Vetting

“When issues like swinging are discovered, however, the laissez faire impression that the government gives some applicants by not asking about the conduct quickly shows itself as a façade. Suddenly, the government does have an interest in the applicant’s sex life, and a deeply invasive one at that. It is …

Get to know gay pups: A unique subculture within the leather community

“Whether you’re playing fetch with your sir, receiving belly rubs, or reverently licking their boot, the experience is entirely up to your negotiation. Just like other relationships within the leather and kink community, the emphasis is on finding a handler who aligns with your desires for fun and pleasure.” https://www.queerty.com/get-to-know-gay-pups-a-unique-subculture-within-the-leather-community-20230806

Semi-NSFW: Up Your Alley Brings Kinky Sex to San Francisco’s SoMa

“While the reaction against LGBTQ+ visibility grows nationwide, San Francisco’s commitment to frisky fun remains undimmed. From Full Queer Wrestling to naked Twister, with plenty of puppy play and bondage demos, the full panoply of alternative sexuality was on unapologetic display.” https://sfstandard.com/2023/07/31/semi-nsfw-up-your-alley-brings-kinksters-to-san-franciscos-soma/