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“BDSM and beheading videos: The evolving role of the librarian”

Libraries change, but librarians keep helping people find the weird information they need. The Washington Post By Hammad Rauf Khan No job is without its perils, and for a college librarian today, one of those just might be having an associate dean overhear you explaining to a student how to …

“He hopes to make ‘fringe’ less frightening”

Des Moines Register by Rekha Basu Elton Davis is a 53-year-old farm-raised Iowan, a separated husband and father of two, a self-described cultural worker and job coach. And he’s a member of Des Moines’ bondage, domination, sadism and masochism or “kink” community.   I’ve known Davis in different contexts, but until …

“Local swingers show ‘Neighbors with Benefits’ canceled”

Cincinnati.com by Rachel Richardson and Joel M. Beall A&E confirmed Monday it has canceled a controversial reality TV show following swingers in Warren County’s Hamilton Township.   The buzz about the program’s fate began circulating late Sunday after the network did not air the third episode in the “Neighbors with …

“Why is it so hard to say that you shouldn’t cut women?”

Defenders of extreme sexual behaviour are blinding themselves to the dark side of S&M, writes Eilis O’Hanlon The Independent by Eilis O’Hanlon As the country still struggles to make sense of the murder of Elaine O’Hara by a man she met through an adult website, Ryan Tubridy’s radio show called on …

“The Kink Club: inside the secret world of BDSM”

A growing cohort of Torontonians are indulging their wildest fetishes—and negotiating every slap, spank and lash of the whip. Toronto Life By Stacey May Fowles …Lord Morpheous is at the centre of a thriving kink culture in Toronto, an underground community of people who derive their pleasure from pain, congregating …

“Expelled student: Sex was sadomasochistic role playing, not rape”

CBS News by A student expelled from George Mason University for violating its sexual misconduct policy is suing in federal court to clear his name, arguing that an encounter with a girlfriend was sadomasochistic role playing, not sexual assault.   A hearing in the case is scheduled for Friday in …

“We Should Have a Better Condom by Now. Here’s Why We Don’t.”

“Like Eating With Saran Wrap on Your Tongue” Slate By L.V. Anderson In 1993, Danny Resnic was having anal sex during a casual hookup in Miami Beach when his partner’s latex condom broke. Resnic had been using condoms ever since the man he describes as “my best friend and love …

“What “Fifty Shades of Grey” Got Wrong About BDSM”

People into BDSM are psychologically normal and healthy. Psychology Today by Michael Castleman M.A.   Both the book and movie versions of Fifty Shades of Grey got a good deal right about erotic bondage-discipline-sado-masochism (BDSM). But Fifty Shades also got one thing horribly wrong. It depicts the dominant (dom, top), …

“One Epic Chart Proves There’s No Right Way to Be in a Relationship”

Mic By Kate Hakala What kind of relationship do you have?   It may seem like perplexing question — there are different kinds? But in fact, in an era of the growing acceptance of casual sex, a better understanding of polyamory and a curiosity about open relationships, there has never …