Sex Lives: A Nonbinary Person Living With Their Wife and Her Girlfriend
“About six months later, after talking with my wife about sex and sexuality so much, we decided to open up our relationship. So now we are in a polyamorous relationship. She has a girlfriend. She’s no longer open. So she just likes me and her girlfriend and they don’t want anybody else. I am still open personally. For the longest time I was like, “I basically just want friends with benefits, like people that I could get to know and hang out with and have fun with but then maybe have sex with.” But then I had a girlfriend for a little while—we didn‘t break up for any reason other than her personal mental health. As of right now am I looking for a serious girlfriend/boyfriend situation? No. But, you know, I said that shit last time.”