“State it at the beginning of your conversation and let them know that you would never want them to do anything that they aren’t 100% comfortable with. You don’t want to inadvertently pressure your partner as this won’t be productive for you and will likely be hurtful for them.” https://metro.co.uk/2022/11/20/how-to-respectfully-communicate-your-kinks-to-your-partner-17785318/