“Kinky sex lifts our consciousness into a heightened state of “flow,” according to a new study”
Quartz by Lila MacLellan American health and sex journalist Michael Castleman has compared BDSM to the child’s game of “trust,” when one child stands in front of another and falls backward, waiting to be caught. It’s a bonding experience, Castleman says, “When the falling player trusts the catcher enough to …
