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6 money management tips for people in polyamorous relationships, from experts who know

“Every financial entity decides the division of labor and finances they can contribute,” says Jackson-Kendall. “Like, ‘I can cover this comfortably. I can throw this in.’ And then that way, we can all opt in to help with expenses that feel comfortable for us instead of feeling obligated to split …

5 Dos and Don’ts of Telling Someone You Like You’re Polyamorous

“Polyamory is quickly growing and gaining more ground as an alternative to monogamy, and for many people, that is a great thing. But always keep in mind that there are people who are opposed to that kind of lifestyle or who may just be misinformed. Spread the information! Knowledge is …

“I’ve Always Had Another Side To Me”: Allow Janelle Monáe To Reintroduce Herself

“Perhaps one reason for that is Monáe’s recent personal journey. She came out as pansexual in 2018, then nonbinary last year (with she/her or they/them pronouns) and mentions she has been in polyamorous relationships. “I never was the girlfriend that would be jealous,” she says, smiling. “Looking back, I’m like …

What’s The Difference Between Polyamory & An Open Relationship?

It may seem all a bit nit-picky and confusing, but the differences between these two terms is important to understand. Words not only have power in creating and finding community, but they also help keep communication healthy and honest in your relationships. “It’s important to define your relationship with other …

What Is Compersion? It’s the Very Opposite of Jealousy in Ethical Non-Monogamy

“Whatever sexual experience they’re having is gratifying to you,” says AASECT-certified sex therapist Janet Brito, PhD, founder of the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health. “Not everyone can feel this way when sharing a partner emotionally and sexually with someone else,” Brito says, so if it’s not something that you’ve …

Can Polyamory Teach You How to Have a Better Monogamous Relationship?

“Here’s where I see my non-monogamous clients excel: They have to talk about sex. Spending a sexy Saturday night at the local dungeon means taking the time beforehand to discuss limits, fantasies, desires, and even whether or not anyone’s genitals will be involved. Choosing to have sex with multiple people, …

Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) interview with Susan Wright, NCSF

“I am truly honored and thrilled to share my latest podcast interview that I released with Susan Wright,” says Kitty Chambliss. “I’ve known Susan for many years, as we had originally met when I spoke for the first time at the National Sex Educators Conference (NSEC) back in 2017 when I presented …